HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
4.3
49.5K reviews
1M+
Downloads
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

Join over 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer people on HER - the world's most loved dating app & platform for the LGBTQIA+ community. We believe that everyone has the right to love and be loved, find friends, form meaningful relationships in the LGBTQIA+ community.

HER started as a lesbian dating app built by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We evolved into an LGBTQIA+ platform for all colors of the rainbow. We are proud to say that now we are more than the 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. We want to be the best LGBTQ platform, and we are working hard to make it happen.

ā¤ļø Dating – Experience the best online lesbian dating & meet queer folks from all over the world.
ā¤ļø LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share the most urgent and fantastic news about the LGBTIQ+ community.
ā¤ļø Communities – Join smaller community group chats based on interests or hobbies.
ā¤ļø Parties – the HER team hosts parties in 15 cities worldwide (from London to LA). Find out when the next one is near you and get exclusive discounts on tickets.

At its heart, HER is a free dating app for lesbians and LGBTQ+ people. All the app's core features are entirely free, so finding your person or your community is accessible for everyone. With the free app version, you can add friends, view profiles, start chats, view events, and join communities.

There's also paid subscription offering even more great features.
– Ad-free experience
– See who's online in real-time
– Additional search filters
– Incognito mode
– And many more!

Download HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, someone for a great date, or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one.

HER is a place where you can be authentical, whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, a transgender woman, a transgender man, or gender non-conforming. It's your safe harbor where everyone can be their true self.

Contrary to what you might think, HER is a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all queer people. While it started as a lesbian dating app, it has evolved into a platform for LGBTQIA+ people. Cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are all welcome. Share your story, discover local events, join the community and live your best life!

HER is somewhere that all the other colors of the rainbow can unite.

ā¤ļø Find out more: ā¤ļø
https://weareher.com/
@hersocialapp
Updated on
Jun 22, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.3
48.8K reviews
Anna Supes Ramm
May 27, 2025
Pretty basic dating app interface, though I do like that it's geared exclusively toward sapphic folks. One downside is that the bio text limit is pretty short. Also, some features like communities are not very intuitive... and there doesn't seem to be any content monitoring to make sure people don't spam communities with off-topic posts. The breakout feature WOULD have been the friend request option -- BUT I CAN'T GET IT TO WORK. It doesn't appear for me at all. What do I do???
9 people found this review helpful
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HER App
May 27, 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. We totally understand that removing Friend Requests can feel like a big change, especially if it’s been a go-to way for you to connect. Your feedback means a lot to us, and we’ll definitely pass it along to the team as we keep working to make HER the best it can be.
Kit Van Tassell
February 3, 2025
The idea of getting into a dating app was honestly a bit distressing for me, but this one has turned out to be really good! I feel comfortable and don't dread opening messages or making matches like I do on other apps. People on here seem to care about what you are looking for, even if it's "just" friends, and I haven't encountered anyone creepy. I definitely recommend it!
235 people found this review helpful
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HER App
February 4, 2025
This fills our queer hearts with joy and feels. Thanks for the feedback, Kit!🌈
Seanna Holappa
June 12, 2025
Overall the app is fine, but very limited unless you subscribe, and there are very few users in my area. I subscribed to the gold subscription. I realized I still could not see likes, so I subscribed to the Platinum. The app's help topics stated that if I subscribed to both, the Gold charge would be refunded within 5 days. This did not happen until I went back and forth with the app and Google, and finally received a "courtesy refund". Took over two weeks of back and forth emails.
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HER App
June 9, 2025
We understand how frustrating it can be when a refund request isn’t approved. Because your purchase was made through Google Play, we don’t have access to the payment or the ability to issue a refund ourselves. Any refunds must be processed by Google Play, and their decision is final. https://support.google.com/googleplay/workflow/9813244?hl=en

What’s new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!